The biggest mistake you can make now is to start forcing things to happen. As you already know, you cannot get pregnant on command,and certainly not because you would just so much like to. You and your partner must be ready in more ways than one for parenthood, and until you are, there will be no pregnancy.
Another misconception is that since there is a pill for not getting pregnant, that there will also be a way to get pregnant NOW. There isn’t, as you are learning the hard way, I think.
Nevertheless, it may surprise you to learn that it is possible to compute the time to try out for the pregnancy. The only way to foresee the future is using astrology (if that word remainds you of daily horoscopes, well, nothing could further from truth, so please read on.)
It will also help very much if you stopped smoking, started eating healthy, getting enough of sleep, and — it goes without saying — if you enjoyed the sex so much more. And I know that “having fun” without the pregnancy as the end result can also become a nigthmare on its own. Each month when her menstruation returns, that worriesome expression tightens her face a bit more, and he is also a victim of that, too.
Not getting pregnant is NOT fun and many couples enter a vicious cycle in which warrying about not getting pregnant just prolongues the period of not getting pregnant and the life becomes uncomfortable.
There are ways, tools, best practices and remediea to help you overcome that situation and that is what this site and this newsletter is all about. Please enter the name and the email address into the form below, so that we can send you info that is not a part of the “outer” part of this site!
Having frequent and constant intercourse when trying to conceive is another trap that many couples fall into. The woman gets her periods and it is a real life testimony that she is not pregnant. Then she wants to get more secure that she will get pregnant in the next period and the couple starts having sex (sexual intercourse) practically every day.
In some cases — in most cases, actually! — that is the way to go, but in many cases Uranus from one of the natal charts intervenes and says
Do not have sex when you think you ought to, have sex only when you want to!
and that can be once in week, once in a month or whatever. In those cases it just seems totally counterproductive not to have sex when you physically could, but to postpone for some other time… !?
When Uranus is very strong i.e. when it aspects the Sun or the Moon up to a very precise degree, you can have sex rarely but only when both of you are in the mood — and you can still get pregnant!. For the majority of couples though, having sex every day in an organized manner is till the way to go. Through medical astrology we can see in which periods of time you should have sex everyday and when not. Without medical astrology reading there is practically no way to know what kind of frequency of sexual intercourse is best for you, that is, best for getting pregnant, in the near future.
So, the answer to this question, whether you must have sex everyday day in order to conceive or to “go for it properly”, is that in most cases you should, but if you are feeling otherwise, you should also take it as normal, and ordering a medical astrology reading for infertility is then just the way to go.