Having frequent and constant intercourse when trying to conceive is another trap that many couples fall into. The woman gets her periods and it is a real life testimony that she is not pregnant. Then she wants to get more secure that she will get pregnant in the next period and the couple starts having sex (sexual intercourse) practically every day.

In some cases — in most cases, actually! — that is the way to go, but in many cases Uranus from one of the natal charts intervenes and says

Do not have sex when you think you ought to, have sex only when you want to!

and that can be once in week, once in a month or whatever. In those cases it just seems totally counterproductive not to have sex when you physically could, but to postpone for some other time… !?

When Uranus is very strong i.e. when it aspects the Sun or the Moon up to a very precise degree, you can have sex rarely but only when both of you are in the mood — and you can still get pregnant!. For the majority of couples though, having sex every day in an organized manner is till the way to go. Through medical astrology we can see in which periods of time you should have sex everyday and when not. Without medical astrology reading there is practically no way to know what kind of frequency of sexual intercourse is best for you, that is, best for getting pregnant, in the near future.

So, the answer to this question, whether you must have sex everyday day in order to conceive or to “go for it properly”, is that in most cases you should, but if you are feeling otherwise, you should also take it as normal, and ordering a medical astrology reading for infertility is then just the way to go.

Those that have no children ask when can they get them, while those that already have children ask how not to get them, essentially.

In the wider scheme of things, you should know that spending money with me will not automatically bring about the pregnancy. It is what the stars say, not what I or you would like to happen now. So spending money with me is not a magic silver bullet, but can point to the periods in which it is better to try to conceive than not. The net result is that after listening to my marital infertility delineation you will know where to direct your energies. Say, the best period to get pregnant with this partner is four years from now… so stop trying to get pregnant fast and go do something entirely else with your life. You will get pregnant when you can, not before and not after.

The best case is when the male partner changes the destiny of the female partner, so that from a total failure she becomes a proud mother of one or more children. The worst case is when your male partner leaves you because it is clear that you are not going to be pregnant any time soon, with him or without him around. (It is also possible to tell in advance whethet will he really leave you or not, and if he will, when will that happen.)

A very small percentage of cases is that of you are fertile on your own, but not as a couple. That too can be seen from the charts.

Yes, I have had many such questions in my astrological career and there are couples that did what I told them (or, better, what the “stars” told them through me) and they have gotten pregnant very fast. There are cases in which there was a pregnancy but never a child, which most often happens when Jupiter transits the sign of the natal Moon (that happens every 12.5 years.)

The best situation for you is the one such “golden” transit is just ahead of you, say, within a year or two. In that case, everything else should be dropped aside and you and your partner should concentrate on “making a baby” when that period is starting out. Both of you should be in optimal reproductive health when Jupiter comes along, so leave old habits and ways behind and prepare yourself for a real life lying ahead — being a parent, the most important mission any man or woman on this planet could be exposed to.

Most women come to me only after it is too late, when they are 42, 49 or, in one case, even 51 years old. Do not let it happen to you, there is not need, at least not today with all those computers, astrological software and Internet that is tieing us all together.